I know what you feel like after two miscarriages...we are 29 and in the last 4 years have had three (and one ectopic), for no apparent reason. I would start building those station molds, however, because you guys are going to get pregnant again and this time it's going to work out great, and suddenly you'll be thinking that nine months isn't long enough to build a cradle worthy of your little bundle.
Cheers,
Forrest