when i try to open a post i get this message "Internet explorer cannot open the internet site --- the connection with the server was reset."

i have to ok this messege then attempt to open post again

This only happens on the first post i try to open per subject, any responses to that post will open fine.

i have been living with this problem ,it started after the BB was updated

it is very frustrating dealing with this problem, my computer is slow enough as it is i have not attemted to fix this because i am totally computer illiterate ,any help would be greatly appretiated.

thanks steve